I thought you were shutting off your email client?

Well, yeah, obviously that argument is shit. I think the difference between us may be that given an example of a woman being reliant, dependent, et al., you would blame her and I would blame society. Which is not to say that I don't think women should take responsibility for themselves, because I do.

It just means I feel like I have to explain my perspective more because we don't have it in common.