But they are, I mean, literally. They're no more important than any other person. It's just a matter of...propinquity. There's a GRE word.

I'm not sure I fully get this. The detachedness I know is the INTP's detachedness.

Nothing makes anybody happy, and it's not really a goal of mine anyway. Being stable enough to continue living, perhaps, but not that in and of itself.