http://intertribal.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] intertribal.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] intertribal 2009-01-09 02:40 pm (UTC)

For one, I don't do well alone. I like living with people. People who aren't psycho. For two, I did have a very positive, supportive family environment when I was little, and I still do now (with my extended family), to some extent. As my friend Lexi says, the family is like a "clan", and I'm a support network type of person. Other than that, biology? And the desire to be with someone you love on a more stable basis? I like flexibility, but I also like grounding. I think I lost that stability while I was in college, and it was like, the worst feeling ever for me. I could never be a drifter (or a homeless bum in California). I guess I'm way too conventional for that. Not that I can imagine actually having children now, it's just a nice idea.

I agree. People can go psycho abroad, and it's probably good to be paranoid, esp. if you don't want to be dealing with breakdowns (I mean, a study abroad program can accommodate breakdowns more than the Peace Corps).

Post a comment in response:

This account has disabled anonymous posting.
If you don't have an account you can create one now.
HTML doesn't work in the subject.
More info about formatting